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Dawn Muhammad donated the kidney Aug. 31 of this year but her journey started in 2015, when her dad, 72-year-old Lucious Daniel, gathered the entire family to tell them he had stage four kidney failure. The news brought her to tears. All she could think about was, “how could I help him.” A year later he started dialysis.
“He looked different,” she said. “He was tired all the time from going to dialysis twice a week. He used to go to the golf course twice a week but now he was tired all the time. I looked at him and said to myself, ‘I have to help my dad.’”
“I knew my weight was a problem and only someone healthy could donate. God made us with two kidneys, but you had to be healthy enough to live with one and at that time I wasn’t. So, I decided to do something about it. It was December 31, 2017 and I drank eight glasses of ginger ale, my favorite, which I knew I would have to give up,” she said.
“I started eating one meal a day based on the teachings of How to Eat to Live by the Honorable Elijah Muhammad and working out,” said Dawn Muhammad, referring to the two books written by the Nation of Islam patriarch.
“My secret goal was to be able to donate a kidney to my dad. I knew I had to be ready mentally and physically. By March, I lost 18 pounds. It was me talking to Allah (God) every day, all the time. I kept eating one meal a day and not being held accountable to anyone but Allah. I didn’t tell anyone what I was doing.”
According to the Office of Minority Health, Blacks make up the largest group of minorities in need of an organ transplant. The number of organ transplants performed on Black Americans in 2015 was only 17 percent of the number of Black Americans currently waiting for a transplant. The number of transplants performed on White Americans was 31 percent of the number currently waiting.
Kidney donors are either living or deceased. In 2015, 553 Black kidney donors were living and 1,476 were deceased.
“It is difficult for Blacks to be living organ donors because of poor health conditions. The very reasons that cause us to need organ donations also preclude us from being organ donors,” Khalillah Ali, a Dallas nurse practitioner told The Final Call. “We can barely live with two kidneys much less give one away. Another concern is fear and lack of education. Many would be excellent candidates for donating but are afraid or don’t really understand it.”
Black Americans have higher rates of diabetes and high blood pressure than White Americans. These conditions are known to put people at risk for organ failures.
Dawn Muhammad’s secret journey was long and hard as the weight dropped but at times she began to get weak.
“Once she shared with me her goal, I asked Allah to give me the strength to help her,” her trainer Tahara Muhammad told The Final Call. “We worked out twice a day doing high intensity interval training with weights. People think women will bulk up with weights, but they helped the weight to fall off faster,” she explained.
“I trained with her three to four days a week; she did two days of cardio and had one day of rest. I monitored her diet of one meal a day and made sure she had plenty of water intake.” As the weight continued to drop, Dawn Muhammad became more determined to accomplish her goal.
“This journey of why I was losing weight was between me and Allah. I didn’t want the pressure from people knowing the goal and asking questions about the status of the test results or how much I lost. Through this journey my faith has truly grown ten-fold. I knew that whether my father and I were a match or not, the relationship that I have built with Allah through my prayers has been strengthened,” she said.
“He was shocked and tried to talk me out of it,” she said. “He delayed over a month in sending me the paperwork. He was afraid for me, but I was convinced I wanted to do it. I was a perfect match for him. He’s done so much for me; I can’t think of a better sacrifice.”
Lucious Daniels was shocked to hear what his daughter was saying. They’ve had a very special relationship since her birth. “When she was born, her mother was too sick to come home right away,” he told The Final Call. “The doctor told me Dawn was ready to come home so for her first two weeks, I took care of her.”
“I started crying as soon as she told me she wanted to give me her kidney. I was just so thankful to be able to get a living donor at my age of 74. It meant no more dialysis. It meant a return to the kind of life I could look forward to but I wanted to be sure she wanted to do it.”
Being a kidney donor requires lots of medical and psychological exams to make sure the donor is not only physically fit but mentally fit as well.
“I spent two and half hours with the psychiatrist and the doctors were shocked at my blood test results and blood pressure. They wanted to know all about my diet. I told them I eat one meal a day, also known as intermittent fasting. I eat navy bean soup, salmon and fresh vegetables. They told me to keep it up because it has saved two lives,” explained Dawn Muhammad.
The story of daughter and dad garnered national attention. They were featured on Good Morning America, Aug. 30, the day before their Aug. 31 surgery and were interviewed by Robin Roberts.
“Two days before the surgery, I was introduced to a woman by the name of Dawn who had donated her kidney to her mom 11 years ago. She wanted to share her experience and answer any questions that I may have. She asked me for the date of the surgery and I shared with her, ‘Friday, August 31st at 7:30 am at Piedmont Atlanta Hospital,’” said Dawn Muhammad.
“The conversation went silent and I asked if she was OK. She then shared with me that her surgery with her mom 11 years ago was on Friday, Aug. 31 at 7:30 a.m. at Piedmont Atlanta Hospital. She and I both cried, and I told her that I do not believe in coincidences, and that it was God’s plan that we meet.”
The church Dawn Muhammad’s parents attend welcomed her with open arms. They were not bothered that she dressed as a Muslim and opened her remarks with “In the Name of Allah. ...” The pastor has known her for 20-plus years and the church members were familiar with her as well.
“Now that the surgery is over, we pray that people will take a genuine look at their relationships with family, friends, neighbors ... check on them, take them to the doctors, take healthy meals, eat healthy (themselves), exercise, have an overall better quality of life,” said Dawn Muhammad.
“We have been blessed to receive the support from so many people—family, friends, coworkers, brothers and sisters in the faith (Muslim and Christian), and even strangers that have said that their lives have been affected by receiving the good news that was shared about our journey and the surgery. We didn’t expect all of this media attention. I am just a daughter wanting to give her dad a kidney in hopes that he would have a better quality of life,” she added.
She explained that her dad’s new kidney is working like a perfect match. Dawn Muhammad remains in a lot of pain as to be expected. Her recovery is expected to take weeks and she is home.
“We are all breathing a little easier now. Thanks to everyone for the love, prayers, and continued support!”